Shed Your Shoulds
Free yourself from the Rules and Roles that Bind
Shed the Shackles of Should offers an exploration into everyday words that influence how you strive, earn, and second-guess yourself.
We’ve all absorbed a lifetime of messages about success, productivity, and worthiness. They’re so commonplace, that we rarely question them, nor their impact on our health and well-being.
True Motivation or Pressurized Achievement?
These entrenched patterns of thought are well-worn grooves in your psyche. Sure, they motivate you to work hard and keep your focus on achievement – in all areas of life.
We’ve been conditioned to believe that:
- Being busy is noble
- Falling behind is problemetic – even shameful.
- You must prove our value to be worthy of rest, respect, or money.
TV shows, family members and social media mavens reinforce them. The message: This now is not enough; you need to do more, be more.
This preview guide to Shed the Shackles of Should helps you begin to name and release the subtle thought patterns that quietly erode your self-trust and your relationship with your resources, personal and financial.
What’s Inside
6 “shoulds” that shape how you think, strive, and spend – including the insidious power of the word Should itself.
A new way to relate to words like Busy, Prove/Improve Yourself, Getting Ahead, Winners/Losers, and Work Hard/Play Hard.
Turn-around reflections + journal prompts for each.
🎥 Includes a few videos to explore how these words live in your body, and how to shift your relationship with them.
Watch this intro video to learn why I wrote this, how these everyday words impact us, and what they might be costing us.
Why It Matters
When you shift your language, you shift your sense of yourself.
You stop chasing an elusive “enough.”
You stop judging your pace, or comparing it to someone else’s.
You stop outsourcing your worth to concepts.
And you start making choices from a place of alignment, calm, and sovereignty.
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Unlearn who and what you were told to be, do, want, and have so that you are free to Live Your Life for Yourself.